The Red Shoes

Remember the Hans Christian fable of The Red Shoes? Do not scoff at the girl and her foolishness. As we get older in life and start ‘owning’ things, we all behave like that poor girl in red shoes. We buy ‘things’ and soon those things start owning and controlling us.

This is an amazing story and worth remembering. Sure as a kid when you read it, you thought how could such a shoe exist..and would you have to lose your legs to get rid of a shoe. Yes it is imaginary a story, yes it sounds impossible.

Just sit back and wonder…have you given up on a relationship because you wanted to own something?

For those who have not read the Red Shoes……… is a small pdf……… is a small 10 minute read and your kids will enjoy it too………..

How Many of Us Wear the Red Shoes?

We should learn to take control of our own “red shoes” before they take control of us.


Gratitude…why we must have it

If you have ever complained about not having somethings (and who has not?) stop the thoughts. Immediately start writing a notebook of why you have Gratitude and towards whom and for what.

It is a very powerful exercise of being grateful for what is given to us. I can not say about others, but I am sure I have more than what I deserve and I can easily make a list of 100 people to whom I owe much more than what they owe me. Whether it is the teacher who taught me, or the client who paid for my house, shelter, holidays, food on the table, a great life or a super great set of friends, colleagues, kids, … the list is endless.

Still once in a while you read a story like this and it makes you question. You know you have done nothing to give back to the world for what has been given to you……read this……I beg of you to read this……read on……The Last Walk for Water

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Lessons From The Cookie Thief

If you’ve read 3rd Serving of Chicken Soup for the Soul, you may remember one of the poems in the book about the “The Cookie Thief.”

In case you haven’t read it before, you can read it here. One most important lesson I have learned from it is:

Question your assumptions – The lady in the poem simply assumed that the cookies were hers and that the “cookie thief” was rudely taking them from her.

After reading the poem, I could totally relate to the many times in which I have hastily and mistakenly passed judgment of a situation or of a person. I think many of us are guilty of this. We make assumptions and judgments without having all the facts.

We like to think we know everything and we like to know that we are always right. This is who we are, this is what we all do. This is one of the reasons that many of us get stuck and can’t really grow. We need to keep an open mind and be aware that what we know might not be the truth and what we know is very little and that as long as we will live, we will be ignorant.

Begin challenging your own assumptions.
Your assumptions are your windows on the world.
Scrub them off every once in awhile, or the light won’t come in.
~ Alan Alda


What you focus on expands


It’s important to realize that as a human being all of us have strengths and weaknesses.

But here’s the thing: most people focus on their weaknesses and try and make them their strengths.

T Harv Eker, author of best selling book Secrets of Millionaire Mind, has a famous saying that, “What you focus on expands”.

This is extremely important as the outcome of your life is largely due to what you choose to focus on.

If you focus on your weaknesses, then you aren’t utilizing your strengths.

Simple as that.

Source: Why Most People Utilize Their Strengths And Weaknesses Incorrectly And How It Might Be Blocking You From Success

Four Reasons Why You Should Think Like an Ant

“Education is the kindling of a flame, not the filling of a vessel.” ― Socrates

All of us tend to look up to big people for lessons on how to get better. We are keen to learn the secrets of their success. But we forget that sometimes the biggest lessons in life come from the smallest folks around us. Now that’s a good lesson to remember!

Take ants for instance. Would you believe those small creatures could teach us how to live a better life? Jim Rohn, the great motivational guru, developed what he called the ‘Ants Philosophy’.

He identified four key lessons from the behavior of ants that can help us lead better lives. Here is the short list on the Ant Philosophy:

  • First: Ants never quit. That’s a good philosophy. If they’re headed somewhere and you try to stop them; they’ll look for another way. They’ll climb over, they’ll climb under, and they’ll climb around. They keep looking for another way. What a neat philosophy, to never quit looking for a way to get where you’re supposed to go.

  • Second: Ants think winter all summer. That’s an important perspective. You can’t be so naive as to think summer will last forever. So ants are gathering in their winter food in the middle of summer. An ancient story says, “Don’t build your house on the sand in the summer.” Why do we need that advice? Because it is important to be realistic. In the summer, you’ve got to think storm. You’ve got to think rocks as you enjoy the sand and sun. Think ahead.

  • Third: Ants think summer all winter. That is so important. During the winter, ants remind themselves, “This won’t last long; we’ll soon be out of here.” And the first warm day, the ants are out. If it turns cold again, they’ll dive back down, but then they come out the first warm day. They can’t wait to get out.

  • Fourth: And here’s the last part of the ant philosophy. How much will an ant gather during the summer to prepare for the winter? All he possibly can. What an incredible philosophy, the “all-you-possibly-can” philosophy.

Ant is a creature on earth that is small but unusually wise. The philosophy on the wisdom of these small creatures can serve as a good learning point for our life.

In a nutshell:

  1. Never give up
  2. Look ahead
  3. Stay positive
  4. Do all you can

I leave you now with the original sound recording of Jim Rohn explaining the Ant Philosophy and I hope you enjoy it.

Source: The Ant Philosophy by Jim Rohn


Preserver and Win

There is a saying, ‘If you are not making mistakes, then you are not making decisions’. What this really means is that decision making requires past experience, and in order to require experience, you need to try various options. In that process, there are bound to be failures.

If we realize why we failed last time, we can succeed the next time. However we should take care not to repeat the same mistakes. There must be an urge to to win even in utterly hopeless circumstances. Many of you have have heard about the story of King Robert Bruce, who was defeated six times in a row. He was finally cornered and was hiding in a cave, when he noticed a spider spinning a web. He saw that jumping quite a distance from one corner to another, Although it failed several times, the spider made repeated attempts, instead of giving up.


The king watched the spider with curiosity. It failed six times but persistent effort helped it succeed the seventh time! The King thought to himself, “I too have failed six times already, but I am bound to win seventh time”. History testifies that he won the battle next time.

The moral of the story is, “Never lose the will to win, even in midst of failure”.


Seize every opportunity

“We have to search for available opportunities which are sometimes hidden, but within our reach.”

This is a story of a South African farmer, who had extensive farmland in a rural area. His ambition was to become a billionaire. He believed that he would not be able to fulfill his dream by farming in a village. In fact, he made use of only a small part of his farmland and a lions share of it was lying uncultivated. He decided to sell his property in the village and move to the town, so that he could engage in a business and fulfill his ambition to become a billionaire.

The man who bought this farmland, ‘I will work hard on this land, and convert every inch of it into agricultural land, and earn my livelihood.’ He started work on the very first day, he leveled the land and ploughed the land tirelessly. One day while ploughing, he noticed what looked like a few pieces of shining rocks. A closer look convinced him that those were actually diamonds. A deeper study revealed that there were huge deposits of diamonds underneath his land. Eventually he became a billionaire!

While some people may see an element of luck in this story, but in my opinion, it was the hard work put in by second farmer, which brought him the fortune.

As human being we have a tendency to believe that ‘The grass is greener on the other side.’ Most often we fail to notice that grass in our own backyard is as green, if not greener than the other. If we are ready to change our attitude, success will be ours.