The Diderot Effect: There’s more to life than buying stuff

The Diderot Effect term was coined by 18th century French philosopher Denis Diderot who wrote the essay, “Regrets on Parting with My Old Dressing Gown”. In the essay, he talks about receiving a beautiful new dressing gown as a gift. He loves it, but then he realizes it makes all of his other things look like crap. So what does he do? He goes out and buys new things. Diderot writes:

I was absolute master of my old dressing gown…but I have become a slave to my new one … Beware of the contamination of sudden wealth. The poor man may take his ease without thinking of appearances, but the rich man is always under a strain.

buy-less-buy-better

First world problems, I know. But essentially, this is how lifestyle inflation happens. We get used to having a certain fancy thing, and then we feel compelled to match the rest of our lifestyle to that thing. Most of us have been there.

Simply being aware that this phenomenon exists will probably go a long way toward preventing it. But over at Becoming Minimalist, writer Joshua Becker has a few other suggestions. Here are some of my favorite:

  • Analyze and predict the full cost of future purchases.
    A store may be having a great sale on a new outfit—but if the new outfit compels you to buy a new pair of shoes or handbag to match, it just became a more expensive purchase than originally assumed.
  • Buy things for their usefulness rather than their status.
    Stop trying to impress others with your stuff and start trying to impress them with your life.
  • Remind yourself that possessions do not define you.
    Abundance of life is not found in the things that you own. Your possessions do not define you or your success—no matter what marketers will try to tell you.
buy less, chose well, make it last. Vivienne Westwood
buy less, chose well, make it last. Vivienne Westwood

Becker offers additional insight on the Diderot Effect over at his blog. Check it out at the link below.
Understanding the Diderot Effect (and How to Overcome It) | Becoming Minimalist

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The Diderot Effect

The Diderot Effect is inspired by 18th century French philosopher Denis Diderot’s run-­in with wealth and how he met with problems when he found that his new scarlet robe did not blend in with the poverty ­stricken surroundings of his home.

Denis Diderot as depicted by Louis-Michel van Loo in 1767. In this painting Diderot is wearing a robe similar to the one that prompted his famous essay on the Diderot Effect. Source: https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Louis-Michel_van_Loo_001.jpg
Denis Diderot as depicted by Louis-Michel van Loo in 1767. In this painting Diderot is wearing a robe similar to the one that prompted his famous essay on the Diderot Effect.
Source: https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Louis-Michel_van_Loo_001.jpg

The Diderot Effect

In the 18th century, a French writer named Denis Diderot received a gift: a beautiful scarlet dressing gown. [Source: Consumption: Disciplinary approaches to consumption by Daniel Miller (page 121)].

The fabric was gorgeous. The colors were rich. The craftsmanship was spectacular.

Diderot immediately threw his tattered old gown away. He didn’t need it anymore. His new gown was breathtaking.

Of course, he needed to make a few extra purchases to accommodate that gown. In the past, if one of his books was covered with dust, he’d simply use his old gown as a rag. But he couldn’t wipe away dust with his beautiful new gown. He’d need to buy some dust rags.

When there was excess ink on his pen, he used his old gown to wipe it clear. He couldn’t do that with the new gown. He’d need to buy handkerchiefs, or perhaps he’d need better pens.

But those are small purchases, right? A small price to pay to maintain such a beautiful gown … right?

Diderot began to notice that the rest of his home looked shabby in comparison to the gown. His drapes were threadbare and faded, in contract to the rich colors of the gown. He’d need to replace them.

He often sat in a straw chair. He didn’t want the gown to snag on the fibers. His gown looked silly on such a cheap old chair, anyway. He bought a chair upholstered in leather, with colors that suited the scarlet tones of his gown.

He spent most of his day sitting at his desk, wearing the gown. But the gown didn’t match the old desk. It would be the 18th­century equivalent of wearing a crisp Armani suit while sitting at a beat-­up desk. So Diderot purchased an expensive new desk.

Once he had that desk, though, his paintings looked amateurish and faded. He needed more exquisite art on his walls, art that matched the desk and drapes.

Soon, Diderot plunged into debt.

Now fast forward to 21st century

We can spot similar behaviors in many other areas of life:

  • Buying a new mobile and then spending money on screen guard, even when the mobile comes with gorilla glass display.
  • After buying a new shirt and now you start disliking your old pants.
  • You buy a new couch and suddenly you’re questioning the layout of your entire living room. Those chairs? That coffee table? That rug? They all got to go.

Inspired by his research on The Diderot Effect, writer and researcher on behavioral psychology, James Clear, explores why we tend to overspend on things we do not need, sharing useful tips on how we can overcome this syndrome.

We have a tendency to want more, we are rarely looking to downgrade, to simplify, to eliminate, to reduce. Our natural inclination is always to accumulate, to add, to upgrade, and to build upon.

So What Happened to Diderot?
Diderot wrote an essay “Regrets on Parting with My Old Dressing Gown” outlining his regret. His beautiful scarlet gown had become a curse, not a blessing. He missed his faded, tattered robe, he wrote. Its folds fit comfortably around his body. Its dust­ and­ ink stains reflected the life of “a writer, a man who works.”

“I was absolute master of my old dressing gown,” Diderot said, “but I have become a slave to my new one.”

In Diderot’s words, “Let my example teach you a lesson. Poverty has its freedoms; opulence has its obstacles.”

(Opulence: great wealth or luxuriousness)

हकीम लुकमान

एक बार हकीम लुकमान से उसके बेटे ने पूछा, ‘अगर मालिक ने फरमाया कि कोई चीज मांग, तो मैं क्या मांगूं?’

लुकमान ने कहा, ‘परमार्थ का धन।’

बेटे ने फिर पूछा, ‘अगर इसके अलावा दूसरी चीज मांगने को कहे तो?’

लुकमान ने कहा, ‘पसीने की कमाई मांगना।’

उसने फिर पूछा, ‘तीसरी चीज?’

जवाब मिला, ‘उदारता।’

‘चौथी चीज क्या मांगू?’

‘शरम।’

‘पांचवीं?’

‘अच्छा स्वभाव।’

बेटे ने फिर पूछा, ‘और कुछ मांगने को कहे तो?’

लुकमान ने उत्तर दिया, ‘बेटा जिसको ये पांच चीजें मिल गईं उसके लिए और मांगने के लिए कुछ भी नहीं बचेगा। खुशहाली का यही रास्ता है और तुझे भी इसी रास्ते से जाना चाहिए।’

Maa by Munawwar Rana

#1
Meri khwahish hai ki main phir se farishta ho jaun
maa’n se is tarah liptun ki bachcha ho jaun

#2
Labon par uske kabhi bad’dua nahi hoti,
bas ek maa’n hai jo kabhi khafa nahi hoti…

#3
Is tarah mere gunahon ko wo dho deti hai,
maa’n bahut gusee mein hoti hai to ro deti hai…

#4
Duaen MAA ki pohchaane ko milo-mil jati hai,
ke jab pardesh jane ke liye beta nikalta hai.

#5
Jab bhi kashti meri sailab mein aa jaati hai
maa’n dua karti hui khwaab mein aa jaati hai

#6
tere daman mein sitare hain to hongein ai falak
mujhko mere maa’n ki maili oodhni acchi lagi

#7
woh to likha ke laai hai kismat mein jaagna
maa’n kaise so sakegi ki beta safar mein hai

#8
jara si baat hai lekin hawaa ko kon samjhaaye ,
ki meri maa’n diye se mere liye kaajal banaati hai

#9
Maine bulandiyon ke har nishaan ko chuaa…
Jab maa ne god mein uthaya to aasman ko chuaa!

#10
ye aisa karz hai jise mai ada kar hi nahi sakta,
mai jab tak ghar naa lautoon,meri maa ‘nsajde me rehti hai

#11
Sakht Raahon me bhi aasaan safar lagta hai…
Yeh meri maa’ ki duaaon ka asar lagta hai…

#12
kisii ko ghar milaa hisse meN yaa koii dukaaN aaii
maiN ghar meN sabse chhoTaa thaa mere hisse meN maa’n aaii

#13
Ae andhere dekhle munh tera kala hogaya
Maa’n ne aankhein khol di gahr me ujala hogaya

Universal Laws

1. Law of Mechanical Repair – After your hands become coated with grease, your nose will begin to itch and you’ll have to pee.
2. Law of Gravity – Any tool, nut, bolt, screw, when dropped, will roll to the least accessible corner.
3. Law of Probability -The probability of being watched is directly proportional to the stupidity of your act
4. Law of Random Numbers – If you dial a wrong number, you never get a busy signal and someone always answers.
5. Law of the Alibi – If you tell the boss you were late for work because you had a flat tire, the very next morning you will have a flat tire.
6. Variation Law – If you change lines (or traffic lanes), the one you were in will always move faster than the one you are in now (works every time).
7. Law of the Bath – When the body is fully immersed in water, the telephone rings.
8. Law of Close Encounters -The probability of meeting someone you know increases dramatically when you are with someone you don’t want to be seen with.
9. Law of the Result – When you try to prove to someone that a machine won’t work, it will.
10. Law of bio mechanics – The severity of the itch is inversely proportional to the reach.
11.. Law of the Theater and Hockey Arena – At any event, the people whose seats are furthest from the aisle, always arrive last.  They are the ones who will leave their seats several times to go for food, beer, or the toilet and who leave early before the end of the performance or the game is over. The folks in the aisle seats come early, never move once, have long gangly legs or big bellies, and stay to the bitter end of the performance.  The aisle people also are very surly folk.
12. The Coffee Law – As soon as you sit down to a cup of hot coffee, your boss will ask you to do something which will last until the coffee is cold.
13. Murphy’s Law of Lockers – If there are only two people in a locker room, they will have adjacent lockers.
14. Law of Physical Surfaces – The chances of an open-faced jelly sandwich landing face down on a floor, are directly correlated to the newness and cost of the carpet or rug.
15. Law of Logical Argument – Anything is possible if you don’t know what you are talking about.
16. Brown’s Law of Physical Appearance – If the clothes fit, they’re ugly.
17. Oliver’s Law of Public Speaking – A closed mouth gathers no feet.
18. Wilson’s Law of Commercial Marketing Strategy – As soon as you find a product that you really like, they will stop making it.
19. Doctors’ Law – If you don’t feel well, make an appointment to go to the doctor, by the time you get there you’ll feel better. But don’t make an appointment, and you’ll stay sick.

>Both had questions, and the questions had answers

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There were seagulls flying as high as clouds and as low as waves.

The fish must have asked themselves how they managed to fly, those mysterious creatures who plunged into their world, and left as quickly as they entered.

The birds must have asked themselves how those creatures, they fed on and that lived beneth the waves, could possible manage to breath under water.

Birds existed and fish existed, but they could not answer each other’s questions. And yet both had questions, and the questions had answer.

Note: This story has been taken from the book “Brida” written by “Paulo Coelho”, author of the best selling book “The Alchemist”. I like this story so much that thought to post it here.